Do you find yourself thinking about an ex and wondering why they left?
It’s been months, maybe even years, since your last breakup. But for some reason, you can’t stop thinking about your ex.
Is it a coincidence? Does the universe mean that you need to get in-touch?
Maybe you’re even considering trying to get back together.
But before you do, it’s important to ask yourself one question: is it really what you need to do? Does it align with what should happen to your life?
If you’ve ever felt like you were in a relationship that was “stuck” or even going in circles, you may have been experiencing it like a vortex.
Being in a vortex means you’re being sucked into a powerful force that lets you experience the same feeling over and over again.
Regardless of how toxic the relationship was, this vortex keeps on forming on your head, making you addicted to a situation whether it’s good or bad.
It can also be a vortex of memories of the good times, the promises of what could have been, and the fear of being alone.
You replay all of the happy moments over and over in your mind, trying to find an answer. But no matter how many times you go over it, you can’t seem to figure it out. It’s as if you’re stuck in a never-ending loop, and you can’t escape it.
The more you try to think about it, the deeper you fall into this vortex.
How To Get Over A Breakup When You Still Love Them
It’s natural to want to go back to the past especially if you still love your ex partner. But it’s important to remember that what’s done is done. There’s no going back. So before you make any decisions, take a step back and ask yourself if you’re really ready to face the vortex again.
You can find the answer by looking within yourself. Instead of dwelling on the past, focus on the present.
Remember that every relationship is different, and people handle breakups in different ways.
However, there are a few common reasons why people choose to end things.
Maybe your partner felt like they were always doing all the work, or maybe they never felt appreciated. Or maybe there was simply too much conflict and neither of you could find a way to resolve your differences.
Whatever the reason, it’s important to remember that it takes two people to make a relationship work. If your partner has chosen to move on, there’s probably a good reason for it.
People often want to know how to get in the vortex so that the vortex can work its magic and make something turn out the way they want it.
We say you’re misusing the vortex if you want to get in there because it feels good or because the vortex can make something happen.
How To Deal With A Breakup Alone
If you want to deal with a breakup alone, you can absolutely do it.
Here’s what you need to know. There’s always a place in your mind where you feel good because you are who you are. It’s a place where you belong and where you can get inspired to move in the direction of everything you want.
If you get into that kind of vortex and learn to hang around in there consistently, then life will be more fun for you.
However, if you find yourself thinking about someone who is no longer in your life, it’s important to find a way to make those thoughts work for you.
The fastest way to do this is to remember all the good things about that person and the relationship you had. Recognize that they helped you clarify who you are and what you want.
Say thank you for the role they played in your life and in helping you become the person you are today. Then, focus your attention on the vortex and what you want to create next.
Use the vortex to help you move on by focusing on what you want, not what you don’t want. When you put your attention on what you want, the Universe will conspire to help you get it.
Remember that as much as this hurts now, it’s only temporary. The pain will fade and eventually, you will be able to look back on this experience with gratitude for the lessons learned and the strength gained.
When you’re hanging around in the vortex, you’ll start getting inspired to move in the direction of everything that you want.
So what are you waiting for? Get in the vortex with the right mindset and enjoy the fun!