Do you find yourself in arguments with your partner a lot of times in a day? Do you feel like you are unable to connect with your partner the way you want?
Some of the most heated arguments that spouses have are about something as simple as food preferences.
One spouse may want to eat out every night, while the other would prefer to cook at home. One may want to try new and exotic cuisine, while the other sticks to tried-and-true favorites. The possibilities are endless.
However, one thing is for sure: food arguments can be incredibly frustrating. Not only do they tend to be repetitive, but they can also be difficult to resolve.
But, as many people know, when we are in a relationship with someone, we are not just dating that one person. We are dating their whole family, their culture, and their whole being.
So what does this have to do with you?
This means that we also have to learn to deal with different personalities, different upbringings, and sometimes, different views on food.
And would you believe it? According to research, the number one thing couples fight about is food.
The study found that couples argue an average of 156 times per year over where to eat and it takes an average of 17 minutes to decide on a meal.
But shared meals are not always easy. The survey also showed that 32 percent of couples argue about who will pick up the food, 30 percent argue over how much food to get, and 12 percent have fights over whether or not to share their food.
When it comes to food, can be a touchy subject for many people. Some people are very particular about what they eat, while others could care less.
But the point is, when we are in a relationship with someone who has a different view on food than we do, it can be difficult to find common ground.
Lack of Emotional Connection in Relationship
The reason I’m pointing this out is that I want you to realize that it isn’t just about the food itself.
It is about finding a connection with the other person. It’s about the emotional alignment you have with your spouse and how well you communicate and understand each other.
If we can find a way to connect with our partner on a deeper level, then we will be able to resolve any conflict that may come up, including arguments about food.
After all, it’s not easy to change someone’s preferences. But with a little patience and understanding, it is possible to find common ground on even the most difficult topics.
The key is to remember that everyone is on their own individual journey but if we try to be accepting of where our spouse/partner is at, we reach an emotional alignment. And if that happens, we understand where the other person is at.
We can find a way to connect with the other person and create a bond that goes beyond simple stuff like food.
By doing this, we will be able to create a stronger connection with our partner, and eventually be able to overcome any obstacles that may arise.
When You Feel A Connection With Someone Do They Feel It Too
When we find that special connection with our spouse, everything else falls into place.
So, if we are in a situation where we are struggling to connect with someone whether it’s about food or any situation at all, we need to take a step back and look at the bigger picture.
Then, we can try to focus on the positive aspects of the situation, and see if we can find a way to connect with our partner on a deeper level.
Because in a sense, when we feel a connection with someone, they feel it too! We are all connected, vibrating at different frequencies.
When two people resonate at the same frequency, it’s a connection. This is because their energy is in emotional alignment.
When you establish that emotional connection with your spouse, it means that your energy is in alignment with theirs.
So, whenever you have that moment when you’re feeling disconnected from your partner, it may be because you’re not approaching the relationship from a place of emotional alignment. This is when you need to establish back that connection.
It’s important to recognize that we all have different ways of approaching relationships and that it is possible to find a connection with someone even if they don’t approach relationships in the same way that you do.
By understanding this concept and making a conscious effort to connect with your partner on an emotional level, we can create a more fulfilling and lasting relationship.